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John Patrick Lilly

November 8, 1939 ~ March 21, 2024 (age 84) 84 Years Old


John “Pat” Lilly, 84, of Milford, beloved husband of Patricia (Harmon) Lilly, passed away on March 21, 2024 while surrounded by his loving family. Born on November 8, 1939 in White Plains, NY, he was the son of the late Patrick and Bridget (Martin) Lilly.

John proudly served his country in the United States Navy aboard the USS Intrepid. He was a former member of the East End Yacht Club, and he enjoyed fishing, boating, and using his carpentry skills. Time with his family was where he found his true happiness.

In addition to his cherished wife, Patricia, John is survived by his children, John (Kate) Lilly, Stephen Lilly, and Terence (Stacy) Lilly; his grandchildren, Seaver, Ryan, Evan, and Tyler Lilly; his sister-in-law, Patricia Lilly; several nieces and nephews; and his dog, Cami.

Friends and family may call from 4pm to 7pm on Tuesday, April 2, 2024 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11am on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at King’s Highway Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at To leave online condolences, please visit our website at

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Gathering of Family and Friends
April 2, 2024

4:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Cody-White Funeral Home
107 N. Broad Street
Milford, CT 06460

Mass of Christian Burial
April 3, 2024

11:00 AM
Saint Mary Church - Milford
70 Gulf Street
Milford, CT 06460

Interment following funeral service
April 3, 2024

Kings Highway Cemetery
271 Cherry Street
Milford, CT 06460


Alzheimer's Association Connecticut Chapter
200 Executive Blvd Suite 4B, Southington CT 06498


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